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Old 03-30-2007   #1 (permalink)
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Just today we found that our female Rat Terrier, Beebee, died.We figure that she must have gotten sick and it just happened as we didn't notice anything strange.Thing is, our male Rat Terrier, Tyrone, is now heartsick.He is constantly barking and howling at the house because he wants her back.They grew up together, as Beebee was only a few months older than him and we got them as wee pups. We've had them for at least 10 years or so. (We can't really remember when we got them, but it was a while ago).SO what do we do about Tyrone?Is he going to go in a state of depression? Is there anything we can give him to help calm him down?Is the only choice to get another dog for his companionship?I've heard before of dogs just going into depression after their mate died until they themselves die.
 
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Old 03-30-2007   #2 (permalink)
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maybe get a new one
 
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Old 03-30-2007   #3 (permalink)
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Go talk to Tyrone. Explain to him what death is. Explain to Tyrone that Beebee is in a better place. Remember to talk like Scooby Doo when you do this.
 
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Old 03-30-2007   #4 (permalink)
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Give him a few days. Try to perk him up with toys, treats (but not too many), some extra walks. If he's not better within a few weeks, I would consider getting another dog. Maybe not a puppy, but something around 1 year or so. Hopefully he'll get over it. It is very hard for some of them to lose another, especially when they grew up together.**one thing I would check Tyrone for is Heartworm. A lot of times this worm shows no symptoms. My friend came home from work one day, and her cat was dead at the door. He was jumping and playing that morning. So I would ensure Tyrones physical health before addressing his emotional health. Good luck you guys!
 
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Old 03-30-2007   #5 (permalink)
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Well if you have money to get a new dog,you might as well need to have one.But if you don't want to buy one,he'll get used to it.I know it's hard.But I suggest that maybe you can get a new one but I don't think he'll treat her like the way he treated Beebee.Well,it's your desicion.
 
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Old 03-30-2007   #6 (permalink)
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I'm so sorry for your loss. You should read the book "When Elephants Cry". Yes, animals have emotions, and you pup can go into mourning. I'd say give him lots of love and companionship. Get him to the vet to make sure that whatever caused Beebee's passing didn't get to Tyrone if it was some sort of contaminant. If you don't want another dog, you can take Tyrone to the dog park for socialization.Good luck.
 
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Old 03-30-2007   #7 (permalink)
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it's true....if u'r dog is showing the signs u say.......he will probably will himself to die....I think the best alternative is to get him a pup to play with........believe me a pup can bring a dog out of anything......Had it happen a time or two.....just don't get a female pup.....get another male so tyrone feels like he is raising a son = )
 
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Old 03-30-2007   #8 (permalink)
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What a terrible situation. You don't want to drug the poor baby. Let him grieve for a while just a humans do and then take him to your local animal shelter and find him a dog with his same energy level. This is important, especially since he sounds like an older dog. You don't want to overwhelm him all over again. Getting him another companion is a must or he could become really neurotic or as you said, die of a broken heart.
 
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Old 03-30-2007   #9 (permalink)
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Well, you can try to find a new "buddy" and pal for him. But, it wouldn't be the same. Dogs are like humans once their partner is gone there's nothing you can do but, comfort. So, try taking him out on a walk and to pet-smart to pick out a toy. Dogs have feelings too.
 
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Give him lots of extra attention & treats. If that doesn't work get a new playmate
 
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