I just read the article on "are aggressive dogs made or born" ((http://www.i-love-dogs.com/forums/la...ade-born.html)) Anyways there is a part that states how you should be dominant over your puppy for the year. Well my problem is my dog has decided my husband is the alpha male and he treats my husband like gold. Me on the other hand he likes nipping at me and my clothes (playing) and doesn't listen to commands from me unless I have treats. I guess I'm wondering is it too late for me to try to gain some superiority? I'm too nice to him; I can't help it.

I think your dog just wants to play with you. Your husband on the other hand is the dominant one, so maybe he doesn't want to be punished when he is playing. Your dog does that with you because he likes you. Play with him and spend more time with the dog, soon he will listen to you too.

Seppala, have you ever heard of the NILIF (nothing in life is free) program? It basically involves having your dog work for everything he wants or needs in everyday life. This builds quicker response time and an eagerness to comply.