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i need someones advice. i have a german shepard dog that i bought 2 weeks ago from a dog breeder. he's made up to me but is terrified of my husband and of most men. he acts as if he has been abused very badley by a man. he shy's away and pees when my husband even calls him. with me he acts like a normal dog. he's a beautiful purebred and we both love animals, exspecially dogs, but i want him to love my husband too. this is no fun having him this way every time any man is around. somebody please help! is it possible to make changes in this dog? or with him being 9 months old is it to late? god, it hurts my stomach to think someone hurting this beautiful animal. someones wisdom would be appreciated. i want this dog to be a part of our family

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Did the breeder at least tell you the dog has issues with men? If not, what a bad breeder. They should at least set the dog up with someone who can help him work through his fears.

There seems to be a lot of threads on dogs being afraid of men lately. Let's face it, some men just seems scarier with their rougher exteriors and deeper voices.

You never know if the dog was abused or SIMPLY had a single instance that caused him to distrust something in a man, especially if they were in the midst of a fear stage, it can imprint on them deeper. In the end of the day, fear is fear no matter what it is directed at & needs to be resocialized to the trigger.

There's actually a lot of info on fear; here are just a few more recent one's w/great advice:
Beaten Golden Retriever Help

How to make a dog socialize

New Rescue Dog - Potentially Abused??

Very scared puppy: how to gain trust?

You can do more search's on the forum & find a lot of info.
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A rolled up newspaper can be an effective training tool when used properly. For instance, use the rolled-up newspaper if your dog chews up something inappropriate or has a housebreaking accident. Bring the dog over to the destroyed object (or mess), then take the rolled-up newspaper and hit yourself over the head as you repeat the phrase,"I FORGOT TO WATCH MY DOG, I FORGOT TO WATCH MY DOG!"
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i really dont know how to thank you. it really makes sense, i suppose i'll never really know if he's been beat. but some of the threads you sent for me to read sounded just like my dog. i took some of the advise and showed them to my husband, and he followed them, he's feeding and giving him treats for starters and its actually working, sure we have a long way to go and like someone said, patience is the key. but at least now i have a little faith. again, thanks for your kindness. i'm so glad i found this site . you guys rock!
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