I don't know if you, dear reader, have watched Cesar Millan the "Dog Whisperer" easily straightened wayward dogs, misbehaving dogs, aggressive dogs. I am sure that the same principles could be used to straighten relationships. All this talk of equality really brings on lots of uncertainty and unhappiness. Women don't understand that their elusive quest for "equality" means constant stress guarding its unavoidably blurred lines in domestic life. Measuring each and every activity and hoping not to be taken advantage of in the efforts to run a house it's not a happy way to live. I think women need to accept leadership. Most women don't elect women to political life why would they want to elect themselves as de facto leaders and judges of what equality means in a relationship?

I do think some women take leadership and will accept it, but most people have such a misconception about women being in leadership. First you started talking about relationships and then jumped to women, so I fully don't understand your point anymore.